The EQ of Dating : Date with Purpose, Protect Your Heart, and Attract Emotionally Available Partners

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The EQ of Dating: Date with Purpose, Protect Your Heart, and Attract Emotionally Available Partners

Dating in the modern world feels harder than ever. There are more options, more confusion, more emotional burnout. We want real connection, but we’ve been given surface-level advice. We’re told to play it cool, not catch feelings, or swipe until someone “sticks.” But behind all the chaos is one essential truth: we don’t need more dating tricks—we need more emotional intelligence.

In The EQ of Dating, emotional intelligence expert Dr. Benjamin guides you through the most powerful skill you’ll ever need in dating: emotional clarity. This isn’t about how to get someone to like you—it’s about how to stop losing yourself in emotionally unavailable dynamics and start building meaningful, secure relationships from the inside out.

In this book, you’ll learn how to:

Identify and break your most painful dating patternsRecognize emotionally available vs. emotionally avoidant partnersCommunicate with confidence and clarityStop confusing chemistry for compatibilitySet boundaries that protect your energy—not push love awayAttract healthy love by becoming emotionally anchored yourself

Whether you’re newly single, healing from heartbreak, or ready to raise your standards in love, The EQ of Dating is your roadmap to connection that doesn’t drain, confuse, or leave you questioning your worth.

If you’re ready to stop chasing love and start choosing it—with emotional depth, dignity, and purpose—this book is for you.

From the Publisher

We don’t need more dating tricks, we need more emotional intelligence

Set boundaries that protect your energy

Setting boundaries that protect your energy keeps you from over giving or losing yourself in relationships. Boundaries are not walls, they’re clear signals of what you can and cannot allow, which creates respect and emotional safety. When you honor your limits, you date from strength instead of depletion.

Communicate with confidence and clarity

Communicating with confidence and clarity means saying what you feel and need without hesitation or apology. Clear words reduce misunderstandings and show your partner they can trust what you say. When you speak with calm, you invite honesty and respect in return.

Stop confusing chemistry and compatibility

Chemistry can feel exciting, but it doesn’t always mean someone is right for you. Compatibility is about shared values, goals, and emotional safety, not just sparks. When you stop confusing the two, you save your energy for relationships that can actually last.

The EQ of Dating is your roadmap to connection

A Father’s Perspective, Guided by Emotional Intelligence

The EQ of Dating was written by a father for his young adult daughter, and for every young woman navigating modern relationships with strength, clarity, and self-respect. Grounded in emotional intelligence, this book reflects the mindset of a protector who wants women to be safe without being fearful, confident without being closed, and open to love without sacrificing their well-being.

Use EQ as a guide

Using EQ as a guide, the book teaches how to recognize red and green flags, communicate needs clearly, and set boundaries that protect your peace while still allowing intimacy to grow. Rather than relying on attraction alone or repeating painful patterns, readers learn how to choose partners who are emotionally available, respectful, and capable of real connection. Written with care, wisdom, and deep respect for young women, The EQ of Dating offers a steady, empowering roadmap toward relationships rooted in trust, emotional safety, and lasting love.

About the author

Dr. A.M. Benjamin has dedicated his career to leadership and management across federal, state, and local government sectors. With over 15 years of experience teaching at the graduate level, he is passionate about equipping teens and young adults with the skills they need for lifelong success. Dr. Benjamin empowers young people and working professionals alike to build strong financial, people, and management skills. He is the father of two adult children.

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ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0FKX431QH
Accessibility ‏ : ‎ Learn more
Publication date ‏ : ‎ August 1, 2025
Language ‏ : ‎ English
File size ‏ : ‎ 721 KB
Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Not Enabled
Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Print length ‏ : ‎ 180 pages
Page Flip ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Best Sellers Rank: #683,516 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store) #424 in Mate Seeking (Kindle Store) #878 in Interpersonal Relations (Kindle Store) #1,068 in Marriage & Long-Term Relationships
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